If I ask you out to dinner and you don’t want to go, how will you say no? We have lots of expressions to politely say no, without actually saying the word “no”. In this lesson, you’ll learn 10 expressions you can use to politely decline an invitation. You’ll discover that that we never directly say that we don’t want to go. This can be confusing for anyone who isn’t familiar with English culture, and especially if English isn’t your first language. Learn these 10 common expressions so you can understand native English speakers, and politely refuse an offer if someone asks you out.
Interesting an useful lesson Benjamin. There’s no need to be rude. Being polite allows you to get almost everything; no doubt about it.
Thanks. Bye for now.
Regino
I am not much keen on the idea of correcting my posted comments, but I do not see any othere way out at the momment (I should’ve proofread this last one):
“Interesting an useful lesson Benjamin” should reads “Interesting AND useful lesson Benjamin”
Yep! I think I’ll leave it that way.
Regino
Great lesson! :D
tiagoamericoo
Thank you sir ^^’
sawsiet
Hi saw… how u???
Md Firoj
Thank you a lot
mieto1969
Thank you very much Benjamin!!
Nice lesson about British culture!
knopfler86
Thank you Benjamin.
Interesting to understand that in another culture, you could hurt someone unintentionally.
beernaard
good lesson
Minhchien7906
Thanks for this lesson, it was great..
marcos alexandre
Thank you so much for this lesson.As we all know,sometimes we need to decline an invitation,so we should know how to do it in a very kind way.
Mysterious Student
tks benjamin
minhhangtdn
Good lesson ❤
Yeify
“It’s just not my cup of tea.”
I like this kind of expression very much.
Thanks a lot Benjamin.
Riccardo S
Hello Riccardo. I like the expression too. Very British! XD
Yongshan Lin
Yes,it’s very british. :-)
Nice to meet you.
Riccardo S
thanks. I have not waited this score is 80
Satilmis
Thanks.. I enjoyed that ?
DanicaBotanica
thanks
SKIKDA
I loved doing it
olindinasoares1962@hotmail.com
You are amazing thank so much Benjamin I like your pronunciation.?
crisxs123
So do I. His pronunciation is so good. Love to listen to his voice.
Sanju
Couldn’t agree more, I also like British accent.
Yongshan Lin
I was truly waiting for your video lessons here. Thanks for this one Benjamin. Helped a lot to improve my English. :) ???
Sanju
Hello Benjamin, thank you for the useful lesson of saying no. It’s important to expression rejection politely especially dealing with someone you don’t know very well. :)
Yongshan Lin
Hi yongshan Lin
crisxs123
Hello Vincent. It’s nice to meet you. :)
Yongshan Lin
Nice to meet you too do you have some application that we can type or talk !
crisxs123
It seems that my comment(email address included) is not permitted. Why don’t we just communicate on this website? :)
Yongshan Lin
Hi Benjamin, thanks for your precious advices.
Excellent
Good lesson. Thenk you
Talita Vidal
Thank you. Sorrry
Talita Vidal
well done
concettasaffioti
Thank you for the lesson, Benjamin. I heard “I’m washing my hair tonight” works the same way. Is this expression old-fashioned? And does it exist in American English?
Lili
Thanks a lot,good lesson.
sabina-92
Thank you ! very convenient :)
apple2
For my level, it has been a speedy speaking where you have to think quickly to understand the explanations but very useful to train our listening skills and our development of the sound of the pronunciation, sometimes a little difficult with the British accent. Thanks a lot, teacher Benjamin, we’ll have to memorise these sentences to be more polite with the people around us.
angardiobel
im so happy for speak in english because im a pinoy
atoy12312
Let me check you.
Im so happy for speakING in english because im a penoy.
Good bye
Have a good one
Metalman
I’VE SCORED 90/100. THANKS
shivadareddy
oh good congratulation bro…..
Md Firoj
It’s very important lesson.Thanks
Khansa mahgoub
Thanks a lot teacher.
I loved this lesson, it is so polite…
Take care!
Fabio Skywalker
Hi Adam Sir.
Md Firoj
Please Sir… i need to speak learn english.
any suggestion for this regarding
Md Firoj
Please Suggest
Md Firoj
Awesome lesson
Chinmayckn
Tell me please, why the managament is – “wife” or “girfriend”???
vavshkovv
If UK paople like tea so much, what words do you use to describe a cup of pleasure?
vavshkovv
thank u .. it was a useful lesson
Dt.Beno
Interesting lesson, thank you Benjamin
josebapelaez
Thank you, Benjamin!I can politely refuse an offer now instead of yelling NO. :)
rodrigodj07
thankyou so much
fetu
ok thankyou
fetu
It was really helpfull video thanks so much
Ashish mor
Thank You so much!
Erik29
Hey is anyone here with i can practice English.
Tayyab 333
Thank you so much for that fantastic lesson Benjamin!
GizemGizem
Thank you
manuel17manuel@yahoo.com
Thank you! I see it’s somewhat hard to understand the English :)
erkanarat
Good lesson
sertofi
Great lesson benjamin!
jihananil
I take it to use 4 now :-) Thanks
Jurek Szwesta
i got 9 out of 10 :/
such a great lesson ! thank ya :))))
Yasmeen Ouda
Loved the expressions,Benjamin. “It’s not my cup of
tea”, is definitely my favoUrite one.
Sonia1234
Good lesson. Thanks Benjamin!
Isaias Menezes Silva
10/10 Very good lesson! Thanks!
viacheslavkr
Great lesson.Thanks.
zigmund
thanks a lot for your help;
it’s a good leson.
Loic mayuba
Great lesson Benjamin! I like the prase: “to check with the management” most. It only shows our (men) subordination to women :)
samurai136
Thank you Benjamin !
Tyrion
THANK YOU SO MUCH
kaarim
Thank you Benjamin
Tyrion
thank you very much, Ben! You are my cup of tea!!!
Corazoncito
That’s really helpful, thank you. :)
Charmene
Thank you sir. That really helpful
Suleiman Nassor
thanks a lot
shahed-suma
thanks engvid.com u dont have any idea how useful this website is loved the well established concept with practice test
Taruna verma
You’re such an amazing teacher, Benjamin. Thanks a lot.
Ashamed of my 80/100 but I’ll keep working with your help
Turk182
Thanks Benjamin!
Alex-1956
Very good thanks a lot
Nathomolwak@ss
it is very nice lesson Benjamin
musa latjor
I had never heard the expression “It’s just not my cup of tea” before. I love it!
Thanks.
ChiaraP.
Very useful lesson in very common situations, thank you Ben
Amypenghh
It’s veru advantage for me to laern…..Thank you so much.
ChaiyaB
My score 9/10. Thanks Benjamin!
Gayane Harutyunyan
Thank you Benjamin, I really enjoy your lessons and I like your way of teaching English.
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90 COMMENTS
It was a very useful lesson. Thanx!
thx is the shortest version. you can use that :)
Great lesson! Thank you
Interesting an useful lesson Benjamin. There’s no need to be rude. Being polite allows you to get almost everything; no doubt about it.
Thanks. Bye for now.
I am not much keen on the idea of correcting my posted comments, but I do not see any othere way out at the momment (I should’ve proofread this last one):
“Interesting an useful lesson Benjamin” should reads “Interesting AND useful lesson Benjamin”
Yep! I think I’ll leave it that way.
Great lesson! :D
Thank you sir ^^’
Hi saw… how u???
Thank you a lot
Thank you very much Benjamin!!
Nice lesson about British culture!
Thank you Benjamin.
Interesting to understand that in another culture, you could hurt someone unintentionally.
good lesson
Thanks for this lesson, it was great..
Thank you so much for this lesson.As we all know,sometimes we need to decline an invitation,so we should know how to do it in a very kind way.
tks benjamin
Good lesson ❤
“It’s just not my cup of tea.”
I like this kind of expression very much.
Thanks a lot Benjamin.
Hello Riccardo. I like the expression too. Very British! XD
Yes,it’s very british. :-)
Nice to meet you.
thanks. I have not waited this score is 80
Thanks.. I enjoyed that ?
thanks
I loved doing it
You are amazing thank so much Benjamin I like your pronunciation.?
So do I. His pronunciation is so good. Love to listen to his voice.
Couldn’t agree more, I also like British accent.
I was truly waiting for your video lessons here. Thanks for this one Benjamin. Helped a lot to improve my English. :) ???
Hello Benjamin, thank you for the useful lesson of saying no. It’s important to expression rejection politely especially dealing with someone you don’t know very well. :)
Hi yongshan Lin
Hello Vincent. It’s nice to meet you. :)
Nice to meet you too do you have some application that we can type or talk !
It seems that my comment(email address included) is not permitted. Why don’t we just communicate on this website? :)
Hi Benjamin, thanks for your precious advices.
Good lesson. Thenk you
Thank you. Sorrry
well done
Thank you for the lesson, Benjamin. I heard “I’m washing my hair tonight” works the same way. Is this expression old-fashioned? And does it exist in American English?
Thanks a lot,good lesson.
Thank you ! very convenient :)
For my level, it has been a speedy speaking where you have to think quickly to understand the explanations but very useful to train our listening skills and our development of the sound of the pronunciation, sometimes a little difficult with the British accent. Thanks a lot, teacher Benjamin, we’ll have to memorise these sentences to be more polite with the people around us.
im so happy for speak in english because im a pinoy
Let me check you.
Im so happy for speakING in english because im a penoy.
Good bye
Have a good one
I’VE SCORED 90/100. THANKS
oh good congratulation bro…..
It’s very important lesson.Thanks
Thanks a lot teacher.
I loved this lesson, it is so polite…
Take care!
Hi Adam Sir.
Please Sir… i need to speak learn english.
any suggestion for this regarding
Please Suggest
Awesome lesson
Tell me please, why the managament is – “wife” or “girfriend”???
If UK paople like tea so much, what words do you use to describe a cup of pleasure?
thank u .. it was a useful lesson
Interesting lesson, thank you Benjamin
Thank you, Benjamin!I can politely refuse an offer now instead of yelling NO. :)
thankyou so much
ok thankyou
It was really helpfull video thanks so much
Thank You so much!
Hey is anyone here with i can practice English.
Thank you so much for that fantastic lesson Benjamin!
Thank you
Thank you! I see it’s somewhat hard to understand the English :)
Good lesson
Great lesson benjamin!
I take it to use 4 now :-) Thanks
i got 9 out of 10 :/
such a great lesson ! thank ya :))))
Loved the expressions,Benjamin. “It’s not my cup of
tea”, is definitely my favoUrite one.
Good lesson. Thanks Benjamin!
10/10 Very good lesson! Thanks!
Great lesson.Thanks.
thanks a lot for your help;
it’s a good leson.
Great lesson Benjamin! I like the prase: “to check with the management” most. It only shows our (men) subordination to women :)
Thank you Benjamin !
THANK YOU SO MUCH
Thank you Benjamin
thank you very much, Ben! You are my cup of tea!!!
That’s really helpful, thank you. :)
Thank you sir. That really helpful
thanks a lot
thanks engvid.com u dont have any idea how useful this website is loved the well established concept with practice test
You’re such an amazing teacher, Benjamin. Thanks a lot.
Ashamed of my 80/100 but I’ll keep working with your help
Thanks Benjamin!
Very good thanks a lot
it is very nice lesson Benjamin
I had never heard the expression “It’s just not my cup of tea” before. I love it!
Thanks.
Very useful lesson in very common situations, thank you Ben
It’s veru advantage for me to laern…..Thank you so much.
My score 9/10. Thanks Benjamin!
Thank you Benjamin, I really enjoy your lessons and I like your way of teaching English.